When I first met my husband he told me he was married but he and his wife were separated and getting a divorce.
After we got married I happened to meet his wife and she told me she had kicked him out when she found out he was cheating on her with me and that’s actually why they got divorced.
Queenie, how could he lie to me like that?—Liar’s wife
Dear Liar’s wife,
The same way he could cheat on his former wife in the first place, and he could do the same thing to you.
Now that you know what kind of man he really is, you will have to decide what, if anything, you want to do about it. Professional counselling, for both of you if he will cooperate, could help.